Nedra F. Johnson, studied Advanced Diploma in Counselling at United Theological College of the West IndiesUpdated Sat
If an ex suddenly reaches out after 10 – 15 years and you’re happily married, should you ignore them?
Actually, your answer is already in your question. You said You’re happily married. In that case, even moreso you should ensure that it remains that way. Your ex showing up at this time “Trust Me”, is most likely a temptation from evil forces that wish to ruin your relationship. Desist from giving them an opportunity they’ll enjoy. Anything to cause depression and woe they’re down/all for that.
And if you give in to him you run the risk of serious regret as you know not what awaits you. It is a fact that most people never change from who they are but the few that do either tend to strengthen in either a positive or negative way.
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(Two other interesting points to note is that too often; people have met upon serial killers and have not lived to tell the tale.
Therefore for your own safety, never yield to temptation.
And furthermore; as a married woman; it would be wrong for you to be entering into an entanglement as we are cognizant of where that can lead.)
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Now; he may genuinely be going through a challenging time in his life and may believe that you’re the perfect person to guide him through that process with the hope of reuniting the sparks again, or may simply have you on his mind, however he needs to be told in a polite and decent manner that you are not available.
After doing so, let him know you hope he’ll eventually find a partner and you wish him all the best. (Don’t encourage a long conversation either) Pray for strength to do the right thing. Be strong.
You have in your present relationship what many continue to yearn for. Don’t risk what you have. Be wise.
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