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RelatedWhy are good people being treated badly and bad person being treated nicely?
Perfect question.
Everything that a person does and says has everything to do with their character or mindset.
We need to understand that the saying is completely true that “birds of a feather flock together.”
Meaning: people with similar characteristic traits tend to enjoy associating with each other and blend better together; whether they are goodhearted, typical or bad people.
The only time there may be a difference is if there is (as happens sometimes)…someone in the friendship of two or more individuals, who has a uniquely strong personality, which happens to be a positive direction…
Did you know that a person like this can influence at least some of the group members in some way, shape or form in a meaningful way?…And most times the positive potential or possibilities will not generally be evidenced in the earlier stages of the friendship, but can be manifested later, in life.
Usually, in cases of this nature though, …(The positive character doesn’t generally stick around for prolonged periods of time…) Depending on the circumstance, they may, for a couple of weeks, months or even a couple of years and then at some point choose to discontinue the friendship.
Usually when this happens, it’s because their tolerance levels could no longer cope with the (various kinds of negativity) that had been encountered during the friendship.
What can then happen years later, however, is that a positive transformation can still be experienced by one or more of those same individuals who were their close friends.
Apart from exceptional cases of that nature, it is most definitely true, that people who possess similar characteristics, tend to naturally associate with each other and blend better.
However, stop for a moment! …While this is true, in many instances, there’s alot of hypocrisy happening among them, however blending still happens because of the psychological bond that they share of being similar in disposition.
Goodhearted people are generally not treated with the respect they deserve, unless they are fortunate enough to be among others who are similar in disposition. And it so happens, that goodhearted people are the rarest kinds in the world.
The reason why persons of questionable characters (bad people), tend to treat goodhearted people with such disdain and disrespect, is due to suspicion which stems directly from envy. Goodhearted people are considered an immediate threat and are viewed as fake and pretentious people, who are behaving as though they are righteous and better than everyone else. “Oh how could he or she be such a good person or have such a good heart?, they say, “They must be pretending!…For crying out loud!”
And that…(“gentle people”)… is where the long faces, the insolent attitudes and the disrespect begins.
Then there is a smaller group, who will treat goodhearted people with respect, because they are inspired and motivated by their good nature, who also have a yearning to aspire to those levels.
Having the knowledge, makes everything, so much clearer now.
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